MMMM +It’s always something

Despite the time change, everything went well this morning… until I couldn’t find the little card that opens the gate to my parking lot. It’s always in this one little tray area in my car. But this morning, it’s gone. Now, I’m not jumping to conclusions, but Elliot vacuumed out in there yesterday so it is possible he did something, but I looked all over the floor and didn’t see it.  SIGH. My plan is to wait until it gets a little lighter outside then I will go looking again. My next option is to see if any old card will open it.  I get the feeling that it’s actually just depressing a sensor in there.

SO, I need to go out there and look now but if I can’t find it, I’m going to hoof it to parking services before the rain starts and get a new one. That said, let’s just move onto the MMMM.




I was waiting for the freebie week to post this song that I only just recently discovered, though it’s not new. We’re watching this anime called JoJo’s Bizarre Adventure (a new version anyway; we’ve seen it before) and this song is on the end credits. I love it!!


FrIdAy FiVe – FuN EdItIoN

Five Thoughts:

  1. A “barcade” is opening in midtown and Ash and I are really excited. We both have fond memories of playing in arcades as kids/teenagers. His was more for competition; I liked to hang out in this one because boys went there. But it’s a nostalgia for us both and should be really fun to relive some of those games.
  2. Similarly, I feel like malls are quickly going the way of arcades; people just don’t need to go to brick and mortar places anymore. There are some things you can’t get online, right? I’m trying to think. Ok, you can’t get a tattoo online. She can’t eat in the food court online or get your ears pierced. You can’t meet your friends in person online. At least, not by my standards. I guess if you’re ok sending clothes back that don’t fit, you don’t *really* need to try things on in a store. But still; it makes me sad when I see malls fading away.
  3. I’m taking Ell and Isaac to a birthday party for Elliot’s friend tonight and it is at Beef O’Brady’s, a place I’d rather never eat but they do have beer… and games. The kids will play those and eat and I think it’ll be a blast. We actually haven’t been to a b-day party in some time. It seems like all the kids in Isaac’s class had huge fourth birthday parties but for their fifth, all the parents simply sent cake and goodie bags to school. Weird.
  4. My boss and I were talking about how inoften we, as adults, laugh. She says she watches The Voice because it actually does make her laugh. This is true; I find that I don’t really laugh that often. The other day, some site popped up in my facebook feed and I can’t even remember now what it was about but I remember laughing and thinking how I don’t do that enough.
  5. I wasn’t laughing when I burned my tongue on my coffee this morning; ouch. But I did treat myself to breakfast at Starbucks and that’s always fun.Ash and I are going for Mexican and beer at lunch then to see Chappie; fun!

Five Pictures:






I thought that was cool, seeing as how we’re entrenched in baseball season right now


Baby in a box


Isaac on a rock


Mine is “Rolling taco cafe”

Wednesday Hodgepodge – Can’t get my act together

1. ‘In like a lion, out like a lamb’…does the first part of this saying about March weather ring true where you live?

Well, so far, the weather has been kind of weird: cold then rainy and warm and muggy and foggy! But typically, March does end up super nice. That is when we usually realize it’s nice enough to take hikes and sit outside.

2. March 4th is National Grammar Day. What common grammatical error bothers you the most?

Ok so it’s more like punctuation but I HATE when people put an unnecessary apostrophe. If it is simply plural, it doesn’t need a mark to indicate possessiveness! I grade papers for a living so I see these sorts of transgressions frequently.

3. William Arthur Ward says, ‘The pessimist complains about the wind; the optimist expects it to change; the realist adjusts his sails.’ Which one are you?

Oh geez. At first, I am the pessimist and then I turn into the realist once I realize nothing will change if I don’t do something about it.

4. What’s something you need to ‘march forth and conquer’ this month?

The Fall schedule and getting Ell signed up for camp. 

5. An ongoing debate around here…do you dust first, then vacuum or vacuum first, then dust? Of the two routine household chores, which do you dislike the least? How’s that for wording?

Always dust first. I don’t mind doing either chore, to be honest.

6. According to, the ten most photographed sites in the U.S.A. are- Cinderella’s Castle in Orlando, Southernmost House in Key West Florida, The Space Needle in Seattle, The Site of the Boston Massacre in Boston, The Bellagio Lake/fountains in Las Vegas, The Lincoln Memorial in Washington DC, Coit Tower in San Fransisco, The Art Institute of Chicago, Niagara Falls, and snagging the number one spot-The Guggenheim Museum in New York City. 

How many on this list have you photographed? Which on the list would you most like to visit and photograph?

I’ve only been to three and of those, I have only photographed Cinderella’s castle and Niagra Falls. Clearly, I have some catching up to do.

7. Fifty years ago Monday (March 2, 1965) The Sound of Music premiered at the Rivoli Theatre in NYC. Have you seen the film? Do you own a copy? On a scale of 1-10 how much do you love it (or not)? Ten=best movie ever. If you’re a fan, what’s your favorite scene or song from the movie?

Eh, I remember watching it as a kid and think it is fine but it’s not a movie I’m clamoring to see..  

8. Insert your own random thought here.
My answers aren’t really spectacular today; I apologize. I was running a little behind this morning. For once, I didn’t fall asleep on the couch last night. We all went to Ell’s practice and Ash ran while I pushed baby and Isaac on swings. This made dinner a necessity ASAP when we got home. Baby didn’t seem starving so I cobbled together some food for her, then bathed her and got her all ready for bed. She actually ended up going down about 20 minutes later than normal. BUT, she decided she wasn’t sleeping when I wanted her to. No, she was awake until well past 9. She cried, then she went into a long phase of shouting “no!”. I did not go in there, however, because she’s never had sleeping issues and she sure as heck ain’t gonna start now. She didn’t even seem all that tired this morning, though she was fairly hungry. UGH. This child! She’s special. At practice, I had a container of apple sauce with me that I’d planned on feeding to her, to avoid the mess she inevitably makes. But no, she would not let me feed her. So I gave in and set the container on her stroller tray. But even that wasn’t good enough because the spoon was already in it. She wanted to take the first scoop; the one already on it was not good enough. Oy. My boys never pulled any of that crap. So while she was screeching in her room, I watched a movie and tried not to stress, though I did. I hate when the kids have sleeping trouble. I made it past my 9 o’clock hump and then was awake until after 12, which is why I am behind and tired today. BLAH.

Random Tuesday and a Confession

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  • So yesterday, I left work a slight bit early and you know what I did? I got a pedicure. For a little while, I was the only one in there. And the sun was out (finally) and they had the door to the place open and my god, it was heaven.
  • Ash had to drive all yesterday so he was starving and decided to take us all out for pizza. Yay! We got home and I felt particularly productive. So while Elliot plugged away at extra work, I cleaned their bathroom and magic erasered the tub – which needed it like no one’s business – and then I swept in the kitchen and washed dishes.
  • Apparently, a guy caught a nine foot great white shark off the coast of Panama City. I don’t usually go that far west to hit the beach but think of all the Spring Breakers! We have it next week so tons of co-eds will be flocking!!
  • I have been so good about taking my breakfast and lunch this week (yeah, I know it’s only Tuesday) but I have planned out the whole week. I’m very proud of myself. I have been working out too, for the most part. I skipped last night but I have to tonight.
  • I really feel like going to the mall and just buying stuff but I am saving for Hawaii. I cannot possibly just go randomly spending, especially not if I am going to pay ahead for Elliot’s summer camp for four weeks. I pretty much hate money.

Today’s Coffee Chat prompt is a confession and it reminds me of forever ago and when I used to do a Friday Confessions meme. I’m going to dredge one up like Stacy because, well, I think I probably have some good ones back in the vaults. (Does ANYone get the RHPS reference??)


Here is one dated 9/20/2013. Sometimes it is funny for me to go back and see what  was confessing. This one amused me so here; I hope it does the same for you.



I confess… I am not feeling motivated this morning but my parents get here in about 6 hours so I have to: give the dogs baths, clean their blankets and crates, sweep, vacuum, and clean the guest room. I should also give Dakota ( AKA Stinky Milk Neck) a bath.

I confess… I went for my 6 week check up on Tuesday and though they prescribed my mini-pill for BC, the doc recommended being on it for a week to be safe. So for fun, we thought we’d buy some condoms. Haven’t done that in over a decade. So I went to CVS and find that they are all in a locked shelf, much like ipods and cameras at Best Buy. There’s a large red “Ask for help” button you have to press.  As the girl from the pharmacy ambled towards us, I made sure to tell her that it never used to be that embarrassing. Luckily, I don’t really care!

I confess… it’s been a bit disconcerting that every day, Elliot wakes up fine – gets dressed, eats breakfast, gets in the car no problem – but as we pull up to school, he’s fighting me on it. He claims he’s too tired and school is boring and he just doesn’t want to go. I never remember feeling like that so I hardly know what to tell him. I’ve said everything. Though today, he was fine. But I think it’s because he knows my parents will be here later. However, he didn’t have one single complaint. I hope everything is ok for him though; I always wonder if something is going on at school he’s not telling us.

I confess… I have felt a little stressed lately but not about any one particular thing. I guess it’s knowing I am going back to work on the first and getting all things ready. Baby Girl took a bottle yesterday so that’s good. I know she won’t have issues at daycare with that then. But I am a little worried about my lack of sleep when I am working. She wakes up twice a night but I don’t really feel exhausted.  When I am working, though, it may really catch up to me.

I confess… some days I can’t wait for her to get a little older, so we can skip through some of these crying for no reason times. I mean, she has been good this week. But sometimes that crying just wears on you!



I have juicier confessions but I can’t seem to muster any this morning. Maybe another day! ;)

MMMM + Yay March!

Yeah, I’m not sorry to see February go. Can we also see some warm weather? It’s supposed to be 77 today and OMG, I’m about in heaven just thinking about it. Bring it on.

Our weekend was ok, considering the rain and gloom. Elliot had his first baseball practice at 9 Saturday morning. Everyone showed, even in the rain, and they had a great practice. I have high hopes for this team actually. All the kids seem dedicated and seem to have talent. He has another practice Tuesday and that will be the schedule until the end of the month when games start.

We didn’t do a whole lot else; we walked the dogs and looked at washing machines at Sears but the boys were in rare form and we had to remove them from public. I don’t know what came over them but it was fairly ridiculous. I won’t take “It’s hard to be good” as an excuse from those kids. Their default setting is good, in my opinion. Sigh.

I had to really calm myself this morning because Elliot pushed me to the brinks of insanity but I’m ok. I got my coffee and took my Endoflex and now I am getting through the last of some on-going tasks. If I can finish all this today, I am leaving early to get a pedicure. Rewards are good.



Today’s them is all about the Caribbean/Island feel so here goes; all Jimmy today

Friday Five – Trying to add more substance

Five Thoughts:

  1.  I am excited about a new prospect we’re working on in the house; a new rule really. We’re going to implement an hour of productive time for everyone. This is born out of Elliot’s recent lower grade in English and his loss of drive for school. What we realized is that we can’t very well make him read or do practice comprehension worksheets if we’re watching TV or playing games. So this way, we all have to work on something, be it house things or otherwise. Personally, I want to spend more time on my journal. I started a creative journal/bullet journal of sorts and have let it completely fall by the wayside. I find that if I am productive at home, I tend to be more motivated at work and vice versa. So hopefully, this will be good for all aspects of our lives.
  2.  Baseball season is upon us; Ell has his first meeting/practice tomorrow morning. He’s on the same team (name) as last year and the woman who took over for our coach who ditched us is the coach again. Hayden and Grant are also still there, as well as a kid who was on his tee ball team. I love the first time a team meets; seeing the other kids and gauging their talent and getting to know other parents. Even though I am sometimes nervous about chatting with strangers, it’s still kind of fun.
  3. I was kind of sad to miss my Wednesday Hodgepodge blog post this week; I really like that one. But I just couldn’t muster anything on that day; I was just too ill.
  4. I finally caught up on some of my grading; thank God. I feel like I crawled out of a deep dark hole. Sometimes when I leave too many things undone, my whole life suffers. I’m depressed about it and can’t find the wherewithal to get it together. Does this happen to you?
  5. Two weeks ago I bit the inside of my lip while eating and it has been this horrible open sore for that long. I’m prone to them but MY GOD… the on-going pain. And it won’t seem to heal because it rests on my damn teeth. I’m SO over it. OVER.

Five Photos:


I want this car37b3e9437208554cdb7c63f214482574





This is The Volcano House in Hawaii; we’ve booked a night there for our trip.

Here’s hoping the thing is erupting like this!


Back from the dead

There’s a card in this online game I play called Antique Healbot (Elliot pronounces it AN-ti-cue) and when it comes into play, it says, “Back from the junk heap!” And that is what my brain said as I typed that title. I literally am back from the shit; we were all down and out from Sunday on. I went home after class Tuesday and the younger ones were done throwing up and felt fine but Ash and I both had extreme stomach pain. I felt like a million tiny swords were trying to burst forth from my gut. The downside of how I got this illness is that, unlike the kids, my stomach didn’t expel all its contents and start to recover. No, I just felt like absolute crap for  a solid twenty four hours. I woke Wednesday morning feeling… ok. Stomach was slightly better but I had the headache of the century. Elliot had his biography parade (everyone got to show off their projects) at nine so I ended up just taking him to school close to when it starts and staying for that. Then I dropped off a package at FedEx, ran to the doc to get them to correct the date on Dakota’s shot records (they effed this up last week and without the right date, she was not allowed to be at daycare!), then I picked up some chicken, kale, sweet potato soup from Fresh Market and some crusty bread and headed

It was exactly what I needed: I sat in bed and did work, then I napped, then ate, then napped, then graded and cleaned. By the time everyone was home, I felt pretty much back to normal; 93% at least. Ash had to work late to make up for time he took off earlier so we had breakfast dinner, which is one of the coziest, most warming things to have on a cold rainy day. When he got home, we basically just camped on the couch. Clearly, everyone needed a time out. I see a connection between that and the above card’s ability: I definitely needed to restore eight health to myself.

I feel a renewed interest in work today. I was feeling buried under all the projects I can never seem to complete but I am slowly crawling my way out. I am messing with the Summer and Fall schedules, I am grading my FSU papers (this is one I was REALLY behind on), and I feel like I CAN do this.

I want to get back to blogging more consistently and also, doing my creative journal. Once I do, I think I will have things a lot more under control in my life. Heck, just getting this posted has made me feel a lot better. Anyway, I hope you are all well. I must move on to the next stage of today: teaching.


Random Tuesday – Get up just to get knocked back down

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  • The robins have migrated further south than they normally do and on Sunday, my yard and surrounding trees were a-buzz with their activity. I don’t know if I have ever witnessed anything like it. All day they flew above, sometimes descending to my grass to eat grubs and then suddenly, they’d all take flight and head to the trees again. Baby and I watched them for a long time; it was a natural wonder.
  • My Endoflex finally arrived so now I am more… balanced. It regulates hormones in a natural way and I definitely feel better when I take it. I’m not going to sit here and tell you that essential oils are a miracle but I am continuously surprised by the fact that they do work.
  • As I was walking out to get the kids yesterday (normally Ash’s job but he was home with a bum back/neck) I got THE CALL: Dakota had thrown up. Wee; 24 hours of banishment from school. I got her home and boy. she sure seemed fine but that piece of toast sat on her stomach a mere, oh, 15 seconds before it made a reappearance so we nixed food for the evening and tried to make the best of it. No one was “normal” last night; the boys couldn’t even sit through a movie – really rare for them – and it seemed like we were all off.
  • I made myself a grilled cheese, bacon, and avocado sandwich and had a glass of red wine. Not long after, I could not keep myself awake; the urge to sleep overtook me and as I walked into the bedroom, making my valiant attempt at folding clothes, I simply passed out. But only for about an hour. I was then awake until 11, reading. However, Ash was so uncomfortable that he tossed and turned and I was then awake from 3-4. Greeeeat.
  • So this morning, I was making lunches and breakfasts – Dakota gave toast another go and as of 7:35 when I left, it was still residing in her belly – and Isaac decided he also wanted toast because his stomach felt funny. Yup, well, he’s now also staying home with Ash and Baby. Stupid stomach bug.
  • Meanwhile, I feel fine but my stomach is definitely a little floppy. I pray to God I do not get this too. I have got to teach my class today and then I can head out. Would be pretty crappy to be sick AND have to stay home with the younger ones!

That’s all I can muster today; I have to prep for class then I need to relax. This week is already crazy!

The world on my shoulders

I have been exceedingly overwhelmed and behind schedule; it’s starting to wear on me. This weekend was FULL of things and I managed to get through Saturday morning without freaking out. In fact, instead of thinking about it too much, I just… got through it. And before I knew, the two soccer games and end of season parties were done. Thank God. Stats: Elliot *almost* scored three goals but he saved about five while playing goalie. Isaac’s team had seven goals all season, five of them he scored himself. As of one PM Saturday, soccer season was put to rest. On Sunday evening, around 4:30, I received the email about baseball. LOL. It never ends, does it? OK, I chose to do this, I know.

The menfolk went camping almost directly after soccer ended; Isaac took a brief nap and Ash loaded the car. The site was a little under an hour away where they met his friends who had already set up. All they had to bring was food and clothes. I hear they had fun: canoeing, hot dogs on the fire, potato gun fights. Small ones though. We have a potato launcher that would kill you if aimed at a person. Ash said they didn’t complain about sleeping in a tent and woke feeling great. Though Elliot did puke the next morning, we surmise it was from too much junk food. He’s not used to overdoing it on chips and sweets.

Baby and I whiled away our hours, playing, cleaning, and getting food from Whole Foods. Once she was asleep, I pretty much just lazed around. Ok, untrue. I graded papers and read. The next morning, we got a lot done in the house and the boys were all home a bit before one. We didn’t do much; Ash has a really bad ache in his neck, to the point where he can barely turn his head. We sort of watched the Oscars; I was more focused on getting laundry done and making dinner. Once that was done, I was just exhausted.


That’s all I’ve got; it’s Monday and I suck. Come back tomorrow for coherent thoughts.

Wednesday Hodgepodge – Random this week!

1. When did you last have to interact, either by phone or in person, with someone in a government run agency? On a scale of 1-10, how would you rate the experience? (10 being fabulous and 1 being pass the Tylenol)

This one is funny to me; I work for the state (granted, at a University) so I speak frequently to a government run agency! The last person I spoke to, one E. Crabtree, was very kind. She is one of the handful of people I know on campus who do their work and know what they’re talking about. On average, I’d say people are here are on the scale of 5-6. The city is another story entirely. I didn’t speak to them but I used their app to report the streetlight that is out by my house. I did it four times before it finally took. Piece of crap.

2. The current governor of Wisconsin is considering a run for President next time around. Walker attended Marquette University but never graduated. In terms ofany candidate running for the office of President (not asking here if you agree or disagree with Scott Walker’s politics) would the lack of a college degree influence your vote or no? Would that be a factor in your support of any candidate running for public office, even a role less weighty than President?

You know, I think by default, I want to think that politicians are educated individuals, but you don’t necessary learn everything in college. Likewise, you don’t just learn book smarts in college; it’s an all-around learning experience. I think I would vote for someone who dropped out of college to pursue other avenues rather than someone who never went at all. Because to me, even if you hated college or didn’t do all that well, you still finished. And that means a lot.
3. When did you last visit a place or site named for George Washington or Abraham Lincoln, and what was that place or site?

Hmm, tough one. I am guessing it was the last time I was in a big city. Certainly there was a road or bridge named for one of them.

4. February 16th was President’s Day in the US, but did you know it was also National Almond Day. I didn’t think so : ) Do you like almonds? If so, what’s a food/dish/recipe you enjoy that contains almonds?

LOL I actually did know that! I saw it on some site and then ate some trail mix. I like almonds just fine, mostly in trail mix type things. I do NOT care for almond milk.

5. The television program Saturday Night Live celebrated its 40 anniversary this past weekend. Were/are you a fan of the show? If so what has been your favorite (or one of your favorite) skits, sayings, or characters to come out of the program?

I have managed to miss the 40th anny show but yes, for a long time I was a fan. In college, a bunch of us used to sit around a TV in the lounge and watch Price is Right but then we’d switch over to Comedy Central for 90s SNL reruns. I loved anything Mike Meyers or Dana Carvey did. I wasn’t a huge Adam Sandler fan but that era was really funny. To this day, we do still quote things like “Choppin’ Bro-ca-lee”, “Suck it, Trebek”, and more recently, that Keenan skit, “Ooooh weee, what’s up with that?”

6. Anything purple within ten feet of you? What is it?

Yes, my daily affirmations calendar sheet for today is purple. It says, “Integrity has no need of rules” – Albert Camus

7. Back in December I asked you to submit a question for a future HP as part of a giveaway I was hosting. I grabbed this one from those entries, submitted by Zoanna who blogs over at Penchant for Pens. Thanks Zoanna!

She asks, “How often do you make your bed, and how do you like to make it-pull the covers all the way up over the pillows, tuck the covers in around the pillows, or place all the pillows on top of the covers?”

I simply pull the comforter up to the pillows. I find making the bed is a lesson in futility; I’m going to be back in later! But I pull that up to keep the dogs’ claws from messing with the sheets.

8.  Insert your own random thought here.

I just spent 45 minutes talking about gaming with a friend. I say I am busy but I still try to make time for some games (Hearthstone mostly) because I have to have some kind of outlet for my brain. When I’m playing, I’m not thinking about the on-going to-do list that tortures my every thought. I don’t worry about money or the future. I can just engage in competition and feel like I’m accomplishing something.