Random (Talk to us) Tuesday – It just never ends, does it?

Posted on June 4, 2013 by allstarme

Super busy day but I am here, for now!

A spider just dropped from the ceiling onto the platform upon which my monitor rests. WTH?
I saw on Facebook that some of my friends went out together this weekend, to the place we go when we do Girls’ night. At first I was kind of upset I wasn’t invited but I know why: I can’t drink and it’s a smoky place. So though I understand, it’s still sort of depressing.
Apropos of nothing, my tan is looking excellent this summer.
My sister had jury selection on Monday and though I don’t think they’d pick her, I’m only worried because you see, she lives in Sanford… and this week’s they’re weeding through 1200 potential jurors for… the Treyvon Martin case. Oy, that would be INSANE if she was chosen. Her District Manager told her to tell them it was Yankee Candle’s annual sale so she couldn’t be picked; lol. Her store probably would fall apart without her, honestly.
My mom made one of my all-time favorite meals on Monday night: carbonara. I hardly ever eat Italian food, to be honest, but man do I love that dish.
So I wrote the above on Monday afternoon but it is not Tuesday at 10:30 and I am just now getting to work. 48 hours after Isaac’s stomach issue over the weekend, he woke to a stomachache. He said he was hungry, so we fed him, and then he threw up; can’t even keep water down. He hasn’t thrown up since about 5 AM but what is this? I mean, is it a stomach virus? The doctor is a useless trip because even if it is, what can they do? Nothing, that’s what.
My whole week feels off-balance now because of his illness, my parents still here, Elliot in my office… I have SO much to do too.
So that concludes this post because, well, I am swamped. TTYL!

MMMM + I feel wrecked from this weekend!

Posted on June 3, 2013 by allstarme

A little late to the office but hey, it’s summer. No one else is here anyway. SO, Ash and I did our typical half day: Mexican food and a movie (After Earth, which is a waste o’ time), then got the kiddos. I wanted root beer so we decided to go to Cracker Barrel for dinner. The evening worked out well: Ash went out and I put on Hop for this kids then put them to bed. Saturday morning, my goal was to get a lot done in the soon-to-be nursery. And did I ever. I actually started cleaning around the house as a precursor, mostly putting off the room work because it feels just so overwhelming. So my kitchen and bathrooms looked great by 8 AM! Finally, though, I did get in that room because Ash started going through more of his things and then started taking down the desks. We removed all the desks and even cut a portion of one (we had counter-tops in there serving as desks; weird, I know) to create a new smaller computer area in our kitchen/dining room. All that being done by 11:30, we went to Sonny’s and then took a long nap. It was not my intention to sleep for three hours but I guess I needed it. I took Ell to Publix while Ash took Isaac to Target for more storage bins. I mowed the smaller side of the front yard and Ash, the larger. By the time the sun set, I was exhausted!

Just about 10:30, I drifted off to sleep but was woken suddenly at 11 when Ash heard Isaac moaning. Sure enough, he had thrown up right at the door of their room. Poor thing. And he threw up every half hour for the next three hours. We didn’t know if he was getting sick or if it was some kind of reflux so around 1 we took him into our bed and sat him up. Better to be poised with a bowl there than on our new couch or rug! We did have him on the bathroom floor for a while but after three rounds of making the toilet, he finally didn’t and all that bedding went straight to the wash. Around 3:30, he finally fell asleep and didn’t wake up again to puke so I think we got about three or four solid hours, though with Isaac flailing between us, it wasn’t good sleep. I seriously will NEVER understand people who let their kids sleep in their bed. He dry heaved a bunch in the morning but after some Pedialyte and a cracker, he leveled off. The weirdest thing is that he was in good spirits at all times when not actively puking. UGH!

By lunch, he was eating about half his normal amount of food. Yay! The boys sorta napped but I did tell them they were getting a surprise, which we actually managed to keep secret all weekend: my parents got into town a little after two. My dad is going to a job interview (today; wish him luck!). We went to the pool and the boys had a great time; Ash and i got to swim laps. We got home, made burgers, then watched Big Bang Theory pretty much all night; I was so tired from lack of sleep the night before and all the hullabaloo.

This morning, my parents are taking the boys to breakfast and playing all day (well, my dad will be interviewing) and I am getting work done. It’s nice because for the rest of the week, I’ll have Elliot here with me. It’s the week without school or camp; UGH! So there you have my crazy weekend.

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Friday Confessions –

Posted on May 31, 2013 by allstarme

I confess… I ate a big fat Five Guys burger this week. And it was SO worth it.

I confess… I Googled something and did NOT find an answer. Isn’t that strange? Does that EVER happen? (FYI, the question was: Was Alice Cooper into the BDSM lifestyle? It’s a totally legit question!)

I confess… I have two colors of nail polish that I own: OPI Magnifico Mexico and Don’t Melbourne the Toast. Typically, I just choose one at the salon but I own these. Ten years ago, if you’d ask me about nail polish, I would have told you I have no use for the stuff.

I confess… I only want to eat bagels and ice cream these days. But if I do that, my baby is going to weigh a ton.

I confess… I haven’t really talked about my boys on here lately. Today is Elliot’s last day of Kindergarten! Hard to believe, honestly. He learned so much this year, especially math-related concepts. I’m glad he got the amazing teacher he did because she really helped him with his behaviour, since he was the youngest in the class. He has come a long way! And Isaac, well, he basically potty trained himself right around his 3rd birthday. He’ s also dry at night, which is ahead of the curve according to our pediatrician, who says only 42% of 3.5 year olds (Isey is 3 years and almost 2 months) are dry at night. My boys are really growing up, it seems.

I confess… I am about to enter a hectic few weeks, with Elliot being here in the office with me next week when there’s no school or camp, then a trip to Orlando, then Elliot being out of town for a week (ok, that part’s pretty magical! ). It’s always crazy around this time of year but we’ll handle it, we always do!

I confess… I let Elliot have a donut this morning as it was his last day. I wasn’t the only one with that idea; the line for Dunkin’ Donuts was hella long!

OK folks, have a great weekend! I’ll be working on cleaning out this soon-to-be nursery and doing not much else after the 3 day weekend we had!

Writer’s Workshop – Let’s get a bit cocky!

Posted on May 30, 2013 by allstarme

1.) 15 Reasons You’re Awesome. (inspired by LouLou’s Views)

LOL yesterday I was all, “How in the heck am I going to write this? Most days I don’t really think that highly of myself but hey, let’s see if I can be positive and do this prompt.

I’m awesome because I have given birth to two awesome boys and I am having a third. It takes a lot to go through labor and then raise the subsequent kid. Most moms are awesome.
I’m awesome because I am thoughtful and aware. For example, I always notice when Ash’s soap is low and put another one in and I make sure the kids have everything they need before they even know they need it.
I’m awesome because I have extensive knowledge of lots of different types of music. At least, I feel pretty cool singing ALL those lyrics in the car. My kids might not think so though.
I’m awesome because I currently hold three jobs. Two of them make a difference in the lives on non-traditional students. English and communication are important and I feel like I really help these folks better themselves.
I am awesome because I have become a much better cook since becoming a wife and mother. Kids can be picky; my husband is exceedingly picky. And yet, I continually get compliments on my food.
I’m awesome because I am loyal and dependable. I will never be late and I will always stick by you, no matter what.
I have mad dishwasher, packing, and car arranging skills. All that Tetris is finally paying off!
I pick up slack at work and never say anything about it. My co-workers always want the credit up front; I know it will pay off later.
I lost 40 pounds (once) and have had the drive to lose weight after each kid by running. And we all know what a pain running is…
I am awesome because I am ridiculously good at puzzle games. Don’t bother challenging me; you will lose.
I’m awesome because I am frugal. I’d say I live below my means and I always look for the best deal. This means that when I want to splurge on something, I have plenty of saved money to do it. Also, I (we) don’t have credit cards so we are not incurring debt. I personally think this is VERY awesome.
I’m awesome because I know about a variety of things that women don’t typically involve themselves in (cars, comics, geeky things, etc). I’m well-rounded and down to earth.
I’m awesome because I have been keeping some kind of journal since about 4th grade and that segued into a blog. That’s a lot of continuous writing!
I’m awesome because I used to be kind of a hot mess. As in, my clothes, my look, my emotions, etc. But as I matured and paid attention to things, I got a lot better and became the well-adjusted person I am today.
And finally, I am awesome because I am related to Daniel Boone and, well, that’s pretty amazing – to me.

WWTK – Sorry no linky on my site this week

Posted on May 29, 2013 by allstarme

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–RULES–

1. Please follow both of the hosts: Myself and Kenzie

2. Include the super cute button in your post (grab the code above)

3. Link-up and spread the word

4. Don’t forget to have fun!

Answer these as best you can:

–QUESTIONS–

{no. 1} If we met up for coffee what would we talk about?

{no. 2} What is one great thing that has happened to you this month?

{no. 3} Where is the last place you went?

{no. 4} If you could meet up with one or two bloggers who would they be?

{no. 5} What are your pet peeves?

1. Most likely, I would tell you about how I am 30 weeks pregnant and I was WORN yesterday. It was a really low day. I could barely stay awake! But I also feel much better today.

2. Well, having those unexpected memorial Day plans was pretty damn awesome. I was feeling a little friendless when everyone talked about their plans but magically, that solved itself!

3. The last place I went? You mean, not work, a school, or the doctor? Well, as stated, we went to St. George Island. It’s such a wonderful getaway for being only one hour 40 mins away.

4. I would most definitely want to meet Sundry or Cactus. They both seem so down to earth. And have been blogging a long time.

5. I have so many! Here are a few: people who toss lit cigarettes wherever they feel like, People with more than 10 things in the express check out, Not using turn signals, and obnoxious sports fans.
There you have it. I don’t have the link code this week, sadly, so that’s what it is. See you next week!

Random (Talk to us) Tuesday – Catching up edition

Posted on May 28, 2013 by allstarme

Super busy day but I am here, for now!

What a weekend! Garage sales Saturday morning, then a quick visit to a friend, lunch at Sonny’s and then 49 cent cones at McDonalds (you know, the ONLY time we go there.) Looong nap then just messing around the house.
Sunday, we sojourned to St. George Island with my friend, her hubs, and their two kids. Turns out, my other friend, her kids, and her neighbor and kids were also there so we had one big partay.

In the first pic, Isaac refused to get in the shot, even with Elliot there on the end.
In the second pic, holy WOW do I look huge! 30 weeks, baby!
We stayed there a good six hours and that was way more than enough for the kids. Ok well, Isaac anyway. Elliot would have stayed and caught waves on the body board if we’d let him. We got home, bathed the kids, got ‘em a (healthy) snack and sent them to bed. And then we crashed too.
Yesterday was more laid back but I did laundry, cleaned out Ash’s car, and made lunch and dinner. It was a nice recovery day… until the Allergy Attack from HELL.
Seriously, I must have sneezed one hundred times over a three hour period. And this was after I took meds. It… was… awful. Now my throat is torn up and I feel like battered crap.
Oh, and I somehow missed about half my forehead (the right half) with the sun stick. So I have the makeup slathered on, though it isn’t helping the embarrassment much, sadly.
At 1:30, Elliot’s class is having a “Hollywood Ending” party; he had to dress all snazzy and when the parents get there, the kids are going to sign autographs and walk the red carpet, etc. Should be fun!
I have Isaac with me in the office this morning because he has a 9:15 doc appt and it’s worthless to drop him off then go all the way back to get him, you know?
Ok, writing this post with Isaac bombarding me with a million questions is nigh impossible so I’m out. I can’t find any extra tasty photos for you today because, well, Isaac is about to implode if I don’t get up. TTYL!

Friday Confessions – Time to make a change

Posted on May 24, 2013 by allstarme

I confess… it’s alarming how quickly this week passed. Honestly; where did it all go?

I confess… I am eating a disgusting sandwich this morning. And I mean that in the way my dad used to say, about a really tasty dessert: Oh this? You don’t want any of this; it’s nasty. Just nasty. LOL. Yes, bacon egg, and cheddar on a glazed donut. This is the ONE time, you will hear me say YOLO!

I confess…Elliot and Isaac had an absolutely AWFUL Wednesday. Both were atrocious at school. I always say: I’d much rather they act like little bastards at home than at school. I don’t like dealing with the fallout and teachers’ complaints.

I confess… they were MUCH better yesterday and we had a nice evening: Momo’s for pizza, a trip to Publix, and popsicles before bedtime. The sugar somehow didn’t affect their sleep!

I confess… I put off a bunch of work for today because I knew without it, I’d just want to go home. Summer classes run M-TH so on Fridays. NO ONE is here, which makes me just want to go home.

I confess… I feel hopeful and happy for the first time all week. I don’t know what changed but I really feel great today.

Writer’s Workshop – Oh, I lost it alright

Posted on May 23, 2013 by allstarme

4.) The last thing you lost.

I wasn’t going to pick this one but it’s appropriate today.

Though I was a good kid, I was pretty damn impatient. I don’t remember being that way but I do remember my parents telling me to have patience. Somehow I have managed to pas that onto my oldest son.

And the last thing I lost was my patience, with him. And I do this often, because it’s like he just doesn’t hear me or he’s incapable of change. I KNOW he’s only five (soon to be six in August). Maybe my expectations are too high. Am I wrong in thinking that he shouldn’t give up his spoon and start eating his yogurt with his fingers because he thinks it’s funny? He whines that he never gets so and so, which is obviously not true and he’s in a bad, negative mood. I find it very hard to enact the ignore method when he’s being that way because I see myself in there, so I want him to change that.

By nature, I am quick to anger and I am finding it especially hard to reign that in with my kids. How do you guys do it? How do you remain even-keeled even when what they do is sometimes so infuriating? I don’t want to be my father, who was always yelling and exasperated but I get it honest. I have to be the one to make the change.

I can’t lose my patience anymore.

WWTK – Get away from it all

Posted on May 22, 2013 by allstarme

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1. Please follow both of the hosts: Myself and Kenzie

2. Include the super cute button in your post (grab the code above)

3. Link-up and spread the word

4. Don’t forget to have fun!

Answer these as best you can:

–QUESTIONS–

1.) How connected are you to your phone? Do you always have it on you?

2.) Would you be able to be away from your computer for an entire week?

3.) If you had to get rid of one of the following, which would it be and why? Cell phone, computer, or TV?

4.) Do you think you could ever live “off the grid”?

5.) Tell us about a time you disconnected from technology/the world and how you dealt with it. Was it good or bad?

–ANSWERS–

1.) Yes, I am pretty connected to it, however, I am not afraid to let it ring and go to voicemail. I got my first cell phone in 1998 and phased out a landline in 2001 so I am pretty used to it being my only mode of communication. The new smart phones are pretty much tiny computers so the fact that it does everything sort of forces me to have it with me all the time.

2.) If it weren’t for ongoing online teaching, I would totally give up the comp for a week. I don’t think I’d miss anything.

3.) I’m going to say cell phone, believe it or not. I still like having TV. perhaps it’s a generational thing because I asked my freshman this same question and their answers was unanimously TV.

4.) I watched this documentary about a small island off the coast near Vancouver and about 80 people live off the grid in homes they constructed. They barter. Their entire system revolves around self-reliance… and solar panels. Sure, a few leave for a day here and there and go buy things but for the most part, they’re totally on their own. I think I would get used to it. I’d need to have that one last straw that pushed me to abandon life as I know it and go that direction. I would probably end up really liking the freedom though.

5.) Whenever Ash and I take our weekend beach vacations, I don’t bring my laptop and I try not to call anyone (I have my phone in case something goes wrong with the kids). I’m totally happy fr a few days away from all that we’re tethered to.

Random (Talk to us) Tuesday – Learning to Adapt

Posted on May 21, 2013 by allstarme

Wassup wassup? Happy Tuesday!

Though I wasn’t a full-season viewer, I did catch a few episodes and Sunday’s night’s finale of The Celebrity Apprentice. I was glad Trace won but honestly, I would have been happy for Penn as well. It’s a fun show to watch, considering I don’t have many shows.
I had a Dr. Who dream last night and I don’t really much watch it. I pop in now and then but I always forget because it’s Saturday night. But yeah, we were travelling in the Tardis and for some reason, just as I said how much I trust that form of travel, it malfunctioned and we dropped from space. And I think we landed in Paris. Weird, right?
Remember when I complained about the guy at Dunkin’ Donuts who ALWAYS got my drink wrong? I mean, if I order an ICED VANILLA latte with NO SPLENDA, why does he give me a hot regular latte? Anyway, I haven’t seen him in a good two weeks and I’m hoping he’s on a, uh, permanent vacation.
Our A/C – brand new as of June 12th of last year – is having issues. Grumble grumble. It can’t seem to cool to 78 during the heat of the day. We thought it might be time to replace the filter but I’m pretty sure that only affects input, not output.
I woke up this morning thinking I hadn’t felt Baby Girl move in a while – she usually kicks every time I turn over at night – but wait… there she is. I was kind of slow to start today so maybe she was too.
Trying a new recipe tonight: going to grill corn on the cob in the husk. I watched some youtube videos about it last night. Isn’t it crazy how we teach ourselves these days?
I’m eating yogurt with fruit and granola this morning and it is so good. I don’t know what it is but I get in these ruts where all I want is X food (for a long time there it was some kind of egg breakfast sandwich) and I have to really pry myself out and force myself to eat something else.
I’m always interested in hearing what other peoples’ movie opinions are. At Ell’s tee ball game, I sat in front of one of the other moms and her mom, who were discussing movies. The older lady went OFF on Oblivion, saying it was the worst movie EVER. Yet, she loved Olympus had Fallen. I saw both and thought Oblivion was actually pretty good. But it was when she said she’d NEVER see Star Trek that I really wanted to turn around and tell her to give it a chance. Interesting!
I finally watched Perks of Being Wallflower Saturday night. I was scared, honestly. I loved the book when I was a college sophomore but all I could think about it were the sad parts and I didn’t want to feel sad. But the movie was great and I could even handle the sadness. I did cry my eyes out at one point too.
Ok, that’s all I have for you today. Hope you all enjoy your Tuesday! And some Man Candy. Chris Pine looking tastier than normal:

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